Michelle Williams gives Cannes a lesson in being a mother

For Michelle Williams, being a mother ‘is in the centre of my life. But I think that’s pretty ordinary.’


 
Michelle Williams in Cannes / photo by Brian D. Johnson

Michelle Williams in Cannes / photo by Brian D. Johnson

Maclean’s film critic Brian D. Johnson is back at the Cannes Film Festival, taking in a crucible moment for the fest and the industry at large. Read more dispatches at macleans.ca throughout the festival, which runs from May 17 to May 28.

Wonderstruck, an insistently stylish film by Todd Haynes (Carol), which premieres in Cannes competition today, is a tale of two American kids—a deaf girl in the 1920s and a deaf boy in the 1970s, both runaways searching for lost parents. Michelle Williams, who plays the boy’s mother, has just a small role. But in the press conference following the movie’s press screening, the 36-year-old American actress had a large presence.

After first modestly suggesting that she’d rather sit and listen to her colleagues in the cast and crew, she took on a question about her role as mother—both in real life, as the single parent of 11-year-old Mathilda (her daughter with the late Heath Ledger), and in films, notably her scorching Oscar-nominated turn in last year’s Manchester By the Sea.

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“When you become a mother,” said Williams, “I think it’s difficult to separate yourself from being a mother. Being a mother has informed not just who I am in relationship to my daughter, but it’s informed the kind of work that I want to make, the kind of relationships I want to have, the kind of person I want to be for her. So there’s really no area of my life that it leaves untouched.

“And I think it’s really in the centre of everything I do, every choice that I make in the films that I do, every choice that I make about what I have for breakfast in the morning. It’s in the centre of my life. But I think that’s pretty ordinary. I don’t think that’s special or unusual, that’s just what becoming a parent does to you.”

Then she added: “What I find most interesting about motherhood in this film, in life and in every film that I make about being a mother is being responsive to the child that you are parenting. Personally and professionally, the greatest gift of about working with children is listening and responding to who they are, not your idea of a perfect child, or who you want them to be. For Mother’s Day, my daughter gave me a card and it said, ‘Mom, thank you for letting me be me,’ and it had a picture of someone in high heels on a skateboard.’ ”


 

Photos from Day 1 on the red carpet at Cannes

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Michelle Williams gives Cannes a lesson in being a mother

  1. Sounds so special. If only it was something that almost anyone could do.
    Oh wait, it is!