Sex and romance on Parliament Hill

Young MPs challenge attitudes about relationships between politicians and staffers

Photograph by Ashley Fraser

It has always been taboo for MPs to date staff, but the orange wave that brought a slate of young female politicians to Ottawa has changed the dating dynamic on Parliament Hill.

Rosane Doré Lefebvre, a 28-year-old Quebec NDP MP, is expecting a baby with her partner, George Soule, 32, a press secretary in the Opposition leader’s office. They kept the relationship quiet for a while, then got the party’s blessing for their continued romance—even though there are no specific rules mandating political staff or MPs seek approval to date within the NDP, or any other party for that matter. “Initially it was, ‘Okay, this thing happened,’ and then it became more serious. I spoke to the chief of staff. We wanted this to be more than just something that we hid and I didn’t want to do anything that would be a problem for the party,” Soule said during an interview in Doré Lefebvre’s office. “I think at the beginning I was a little bit nervous just in general about even dating an MP and what that would mean.”

Such relationships have been discouraged in the past because Parliament Hill has traditionally been dominated by older male MPs and young female staff members.

Soule and Doré Lefebvre said they have opened the floodgates in their party and joked that an orange baby wave could be next. “We were the trailblazers—people felt it was more comfortable: ‘Well if George and Rosane could do it, then, fine, we’re going for it,’ ” said Soule.

Soule and Doré Lefebvre began dating shortly after the 2011 election. They met when he helped her write her first statement in the House of Commons. Her due date is April 19, within days of the NDP convention.

The couple found out they were having a girl in early December, the same day the government approved the Nexen deal. Soule tweeted that the most important news that day was that they were expecting a daughter.

They have bought a house near her riding office in Laval but have no marriage plans at this stage. “There are no rings,” she laughed. “So many things happened since my election. I met George. I’m so lucky and so happy right now.”

She plans on returning to work a few weeks after giving birth so she can be in the House of Commons for spring votes. She is also restricted in the time she takes off: MPs do not pay Employment Insurance so they do not get maternity or paternity benefits. Soule will take paternity leave and will bring their baby to the House of Commons lobby so Doré Lefebvre can breastfeed.

Dating between staff and MPs is “a whole new thing,” said Soule. There are romances in other parties but they are rare. James Moore, the thirtysomething Conservative MP and cabinet minister, married Courtney Payne, a communications specialist for the Prime Minister, last December. Moore’s announcement was greeted with congratulations from his caucus but it is understood the Prime Minister is not a fan of MPs dating staff members or MPs dating other MPs (see Peter Mackay and Belinda Stronach, or Helena Guergis and Rahim Jaffer). One party insider said: “But not unlike many a parent, you can’t choose who your kids date.”

Tim Powers, a lobbyist in Ottawa, said relationships on the Hill are inevitably a matter of proximity, and the new crop of young MPs will result in more dating between politicians and staff. “Given the nature of the Ottawa political life, the people it attracts, throw in a bit of human nature, and one of its natural extensions is younger MPs dating staff members of a similar age. It gives a parliamentary filibuster new meaning.”




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Sex and romance on Parliament Hill

  1. A sound axiom: One should never dip one’s pen in the company ink.

    • I don’t agree.

      First, that phrase suggests the people are the property of the organization, not individuals with choice. In fact, it is rather sexist.

      We spend nearly half of our reproductive life at work, it is naive to think that this wouldn’t be a place where we meet potential life partners. Yes, there are ethical dilemmas if one partner is under the other’s management. This can easily be addressed by shifting roles and an open conversation with HR or upper management about managing appearances and ethics.

      I met my wife at work and I wouldn’t change a thing we did to come this far.

      • Spouses working at the same employer is idiotic. Conflict of interest is inevitable, and earnings risk is increased in event of bankruptcy. If employed by government, now you’ve got 2 dependents on government cheques in the same household.
        Absolutely moronic.

        Got love? Go get a job at another shop.

  2. Not much Cons can say about it after Vic Toews.

  3. Watch out ..there has to be 20 or 30 old Liberal senators on the prowl looking for blonde 19 year olds. They better stay off airplanes.

    • and one baby sitter hunter for even younger girlies from the conservative party

  4. politition should not be fraturnizing period ! whats next,bunga bunga parties ? the HOC is not a dating centre,its a place to do the public tax payers bussiness.

    • That’s all we need. Not only they are screwing us, now each other!

  5. The funny thing is, the staffers in the OLO are more like the MPs bosses (especially this latest crop from Quebec, who are still really green). MPs need permission from the centre to do almost anything. The same dynamic played out when Pierre Pollievere was dating Byrne at the PMO.

  6. What happens when an MP from Ottawa dates the Director of the CPC?.. they spawned Pierre Poutine.. But alas, Pierre is an unwanted and unloved spawn now.. don’t know who got custody in the end!

    • ….awwww, but who wouldn’t love Canada’s answer to Pepe le Pew?

      • oooops…you meant “Poutine”. Misread it there, at first I thought it said “Pollievre”…but hey, if the shoe fits, eh?

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