grief

Heather Ramey is grieving the loss of her husband Dave Varghese along with her three children Tonia, 26, Suriya, 8, and Elijah, 5. They were unable to visit Varghese in the hospital because of restrictions to prevent the spread of COVID-19, even though he did not have the virus. (Photograph by Chloë Ellingson)

The pandemic has disrupted death and mourning in ways we don’t yet understand

The act of being present for a dying loved one can be an initial processing of grief, but often family members of coronavirus patients aren’t allowed visits until the very end. COVID-19 may be setting the stage for a ‘tsunami of grief.’

A son’s letter to his grieving parents: ‘I have you, right now’

Before You Go: Luke Ottenhof and his family endured a year of tragic deaths. But death can teach us how to live—lessons he wants his parents to know

Trump’s 100 days: Our five stages of grief

Watching Donald Trump’s utterly inept turn as president has been an exhausting, emotional journey. But we will survive.

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Augusten Borroughs’ anti-self-help book

The American memoirist says affirmations are absurd and truthfulness is medicinal

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We’ve been misled about how to grieve

Why it may be wise to skip the months of journalling and group talk we’ve been taught we need

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What grieving people need from you

Promising to ‘be there’ doesn’t mean dropping off one casserole, then vanishing