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The complicated task of never forgetting

John Geddes on how Remembrance Day 2014 in Ottawa felt different in the wake of Oct. 22


 
Nov. 11, 2014, at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, (Justin Tank, The Canadian Press)

Nov. 11, 2014, at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, (Justin Tank, The Canadian Press)

The ritual of Remembrance Day is all about resisting forgetfulness, about somehow remaining mindful that wars were fought, and troops died in them, far away, or long ago, or both.

But on this morning, at the National War Memorial in Ottawa, all the usual sights and sounds meant to serve memory felt just slightly superfluous. The final note of The Last Post hung in the air, as it always must. The soldiers, from old vets to young cadets, looked splendid, as they always do. Beneath everything familiar, however, there was the ache of the barely scarred-over wound left by Cpl. Nathan Cirillo’s death, only 21 days ago, in this very place.

If there was no danger of Cirillo’s murder being forgotten so soon, Remembrance Day offered a chance to ponder how we should relate a senseless attack—against a young soldier doing ceremonial guard duty at the country’s most sanctified place of remembrance—with the sacrifices of generations of troops sent to fight abroad.

The mission Canadian troops took on in Afghanistan from 2002 to 2011 blurred the line between confronting terrorism and fighting a war. And throughout that era, the Nov. 11 crowds around the memorial in Confederation Square steadily swelled. In fact, they were growing even before that, going back to the marking of the 50th anniversary of the end of the Second World War in 1995.

Cirillo’s death brought out thousands more today, filling the Ottawa streets that feed into the square, and the slope of Parliament’s East Block, which overlooks it. The turnout may have been the biggest since the memorial—that moving bronze assemblage of First World War soldiers struggling through an archway—was dedicated in 1939.

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Among those who arrived hours early, to stake out a good viewing spot, was Glenn Allen, 65, of Gatineau, Que., who told me he last attended the ceremony here in 1964. That year his late father, who flew as a co-pilot in Canadian bombers over Sicily and North Africa in the Second World War, was among the veterans being specially honoured.

I asked Allen how he felt about his father’s war experience now being tied together, by the tragedy of Cirillo’s death, with our contemporary fears about terrorism. His response caught me off guard: Allen said his fiancée was the lone Canadian among 26 people killed in 1972 at an airport in Tel Aviv by the Japanese Red Army, a terrorist organization then supporting Palestinian groups. He was by her side when they shot her; they were a couple of University of British Columbia students on an adventure.

Allen struck me as a naturally upbeat guy, but his advice to Canadian politicians, not surprisingly given his personal story, is to take even seemingly remote terrorist threats very seriously indeed. “When ISIS threatens Canada by name,” he said, “believe them.”

Tom Cox, 59, was another who arrived early and alone. Cox served in the army as a mechanic from 1974 to 2000, including stints in Bosnia and Kosovo in the 1990s, during the messy conflicts there when the old Yugoslavia was disintegrating. He contrasted Cirillo’s murder with the deaths of soldiers deployed to combat zones: “You expect it when you’re away at war; you don’t expect it in Canada.”

Cox now works at an office job in Edmonton, and moved a planned business trip to Ottawa up by a day in order to be in the capital on Nov. 11. He had never before attended the National War Memorial service. But he recalled Remembrance Days elsewhere—back before the Afghan mission restored the military’s place in our imagination—when he would see few civilians at the cenotaphs.

Times have changed. More Canadians than ever strive to remember, at least once a year, to be grateful. Beyond that, this task of never forgetting is more complicated. After all, those of us lucky enough not to have experienced war can’t share a combat veteran’s memories.

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Even in wartime, it must be this way. In Alan Cumyn’s novel The Sojourn, a young Canadian fighting in the First World War, back in London for a respite from the front, meets an older man on the street, who asks if the sojourning soldier happened to have been at Gallipoli. “ ‘My son was at Gallipoli,’ he says. He looks down at his shoes for a moment, as if unable to speak.”

That fictional father’s yearning to connect with someone who possesses real memory of what his son experienced seems to me to bring us close to a more common feeling of falling short. We’re told we should remember, but at a deeper level, of course, we can’t. We weren’t there. We can only look down at our shoes. And show up on Remembrance Day.

This morning, by the time the formal part of the program got going, I had drifted far back in the throng. From my vantage point, we couldn’t see much other than the tops of the tall bearskin hats of the Governor General’s Foot Guards, and the tips of the flags carried at the front of the veterans’ parade.

Around me, though, nobody seemed to mind being unable to catch even a glimpse of dignitaries like the Prime Minister and Princess Anne laying wreaths. The bagpipes reached us, and the recitation over the loudspeakers —“They shall not grow old …” — and we could gaze across the square at the green-bronze angel, atop the memorial, against the blue sky.

That was a sight, serenely aloof from recent news. But after the ceremony ended, quite a few in the crowd waited for their chance to move in closer, right up under the angel, and place their poppies on the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, a gesture that’s taken hold in recent years.

A good many stood there for a long time afterward. It was beside the tomb that Nathan Cirillo was standing when he was killed on Oct. 22. We’ll be reminding each other of that for many Remembrance Days to come.


 

The complicated task of never forgetting

  1. You, [and everyone else in Canada] are being primed for war.

    All your patriotism buttons are being pushed in an effort to make you keen to bomb, shoot and march.

    Flags, a ‘princess royal’, cannon, brass bands, a GG in a beret….and words.

    Lots of words

    When a country is in trouble economically….it’s the oldest trick in the book….diversion. Make them hate somebody else.

    Give the people an ‘enemy’ ….make one up if you have to…and a ‘war’ alone will boost the economy.

    • And all this coming from someone who has spent the past 6 years haunting Macleans comments sections, trying (and failing) to convince everyone that Canadians need to just accept our “reality” as a bit player in some larger global order that only Emily understands. That Canada itself doesn’t matter anymore.

      Don’t mistake your own absence of patriotism, your own lack of appreciation for this country and its history, your own lack of gratefulness for those who died for us, as evidence of some hidden reality that only you can see. The rest of us see this for exactly what it is: a shortcoming, not a strength.

      • If you have set yourself up to fight globalization, you have just written off the rest of your life.

        • I’m not fighting anything. And the only thing I’ve written off is this latest religious craze you call “globalism”. We are only just now reaching a level of global integration that we had in 1913 – that would be 101 years ago. We know how that turned out.

          • LOL Even your turnip truck has left without you.

    • Just how exactly is honouring those who fought past battles priming us for future ones? If anything, reminders of the cost of war should make us more reluctant to heedlessly charge into the breach; to be more thoughtful about the next time – do we participate? To what extent? Will the cost in lives be worth it?

      • We’ve always had memorials….have wars stopped?

        Right while we were commemorating on Nov 11 at the monument…..we were bombing in the ME.

        • Yup, we were. But how many troops have we committed? For how long?

          Each time the question of our participation comes up, so do the ghosts of conflicts past. There are conflicts we’ve taken a pass on; others, our participation has been less than some of our allies would have liked.

          War memorials and remembrance ceremonies do NOT prime us for war. That’s a lot of bafflegab. And you know it.

          • Take your turnips and begone

  2. Never forgetting is indeed a complicated thing. Nations, like individuals, can forget their past as they age.

    I attended the ceremony at the Brampton cenotaph this year – first time at a war memorial service since I was a kid (always attend a church service the Sunday before or on the 11th). There was quite a turnout – don’t know how it compared to past years – but one thing I noticed: In a city where less than 50% of the residents are Caucasian, about 95% of those in attendance were. And most were middle aged and older.

    I suspect that, by and large, those who attended have older, deeper ties and more family that served, and so feel a greater need to remember. Most young people and residents of colour (largely recent immigrants / first generation Canadians in Brampton) will not yet have had the time to develop those same roots and feelings.

    But it does raise the question: As our population changes, will newer Canadians – born here or otherwise – continue to care? Geddes notes the numbers have been rising since 1995; I hope they continue to do so. But my own gut feeling is that we have peaked (or will soon); barring another reason to remember, the memories (and the numbers) WILL fade.

  3. The ceremony and poems and wreaths, they all have their place. But the daily remembrance of the sacrifices made should involve more than a poppy pinned to one’s jacket. It should involve adequate disability benefits, and effective mental health programs. We call them heroes, but they are still human. We expect them to easily transition back to civilian life; to be able to flick a switch and forget all that they’ve seen and felt. That is not honouring their sacrifice; that is not paying tribute.

  4. In 50 years [or less] most of our current countries won’t exist.

    Loyalties will obviously change as well.

    • Emily is engaged in the complicated task of forgetting everything.

      • “The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn.” Alvin Toffler

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